relationship is about negotiation

hence, when negotiation fails, relationships will fall apart. and when one party refuses to negotiate anymore, relationships will start to break apart.




"i never thought your love will change so fast,
i thought we built our love so strong to last,
driving me crazy, am I losing you?"


(Boyzone - where did you go?)

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